6 weeks into Plan B (please read my post in Plan A/Plan B, "Plan B Shot to Hell") wife files for divorce. Now what?<BR>Sorry so brief but my other post was long.<P>bgun

I was stationed at George AFB when I was first married, and lived there for three years. Our first place together was on Hesperia Road, right across the street from the elementary school, on a very dangerous curve...interesting place, I lost count of how many wrecks there were in the six months we lived there!<P>I am sorry that you have had so much pain thrust upon you lately, it is hard to take, isn't it? Things tend to magnify each other, too.<P>It sounds to me as if she doesn't have her ENs met by you, despite the fact that you feel as though you are doing all that you can to provide them. The meaning of your overtures is not what you intend. You may think a thing says, 'you're important to me', but that may not be what she is hearing. I find it sad that you gathered so much information, and then failed to use it to your advantage. In that material is something, or rather some things that this man (these men?) said to her, or heard from her <B>that matters to her enough to engage her love program.</B> Get that info out, and get smart about it. Do you want to reconcile? Then find out what you are not providing, and get straight on how to do that! Hey, here's an idea....find her online, and see if <B>you</B> can get it right there...may be useful in the future....what do you think? -Mike