I was just wondering do you think that the WS AND OP know how much pain they cause so many people? I was thinking how this has hurt not only me, but my 3 children, and 5 grandchildren, hurt my five sisters and there family's hurt her parents and sisters, hurt friends and people I work with and how it has effected so many other people. This doesn't include his family, I estimate that this whole thing has directly effected thirty people or so, that is mind boggling to me, Do they know or care???? what do you all think and how many has it effected for you??

Its like that old shampoo commercial...you tell two friends, and they tell two friends, and so on, and so on. Pretty soon the whole planet is affected! Or is that infected?<P>I'll answer that...the answer is one, or two. And they 'don't get it'. So, that is all they can think. You are the only one who isn't 'Fine' with it. That's how they see it. Oh, and if your kids tell them they don't approve, then you've obviously brain-washed them. There is literally no end to the justifications in this, don't even try to go there! -Mike

They don't believe what they are doing/have done is wrong. We are the ones with the problems, not them. After all, we "drove" them to do it.<P>Driving off into the sunset...<BR>Nell

Actually, I think the DO know that what they did was wrong, but are justifying it because...<P>...yes, we "drove" them to it (according to them).<P>...if they really thought about it at any length, it would tear them apart just as much as it tore us apart. Humans weren't designed to inflict that much pain on each other without it eventually tearing them up (just wait....it'll happen).<P>...they don't want to know the truth and don't want to have any accountability for their actions. The FOG is a very easy place to be....<P>...and many of them are hurt and broken people, who have a broken place inside that unconsiously pushes them to act in ways that are against their (and anyone else's) best interest. That is not an excuse...it's PART of an explanation. They are still accountable to "heal" themselves, not just continue acting out of their brokenness.<P>That's my opinion.<BR>Aloha,<BR>Mrs.O<P><p>[This message has been edited by Mrs.O (edited August 22, 2001).]