My husband left me 4 months ago saying he didnt love me anymore. We had been married 2 years and together for 4. We have an 18 month old baby girl. I had post natal depression and not meaning to pushed my husband away I did not give him any affection. I* feel he has put up an emotional wall to stop feeling the pain I was causing him and now doesnt love me anymore.<P>For the last month we have been meeting as friends which is what he wanted in hope that his love for me would return. But I find it so painful to do, as I love him so much and he does not show me any affection, and I want to show him how much I love him and I cant. We go out together with our little girl and on our own. But it hurts so much as we get on so well together and really enjoy each others company, then I drop him off at his place and I come home on my own. Reality hits and I am in such a terrible state.<P>I dont know how long I can carry on doing this. I dont know if he will ever love me again, am I wasting my time? How long should I carry on doing this for? I know I cant do this for a long time, but I know I have got to give it a chance. I also know whilst I am doing this I am not getting over him, and I am hurting so badly.<P>Any advice would be greatly received.<P>many thanks<P>Lynne

Welcome <B>Lyndilou</B>...<P>There is a post of general welcome I wish to share with you... <BR>It is geared to issues involving <B>infidelity</B>...<BR>...but in everyway possible... can help your situation as well!!<P>It has a lot of quick links to many of the <B>most</B> important MB sites...<BR>Click here ==> <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000553.html" TARGET=_blank>General Welcome for All New Builders(Newbies)</A><P><B>About your post</B>...<P>Do start on a <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/graphic/mbi8113_ab.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A</A>...<BR>Check out my post <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum30/HTML/000176.html" TARGET=_blank>Plan A - 101 (2nd ed.)</A>.<P>Plan A is not just for trying to win back a Wayward Spouse(WS) from an infidelity...<BR>...it is what you should be doing to build/rebuild yourself first... and then your marriage!<P>If you have drifted away from your(a) faith... (whatevcr that may be)...<BR>...consider rediscovering it...<BR>...this step too, has helped countless marriage builders.<P>You have my prayers...<P> <P><A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000254.html" TARGET=_blank>Jim</A> / <A HREF="http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/Forum29/HTML/000037.html" TARGET=_blank>NSR</A>