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2 months after d-day. Plan B'ing WS, have no contact at all and no idea what is going on with her life. Last conversation we had was a month ago separating our things where she decided not to work it out, however she refuses to file..asks rhetorically why I am 'pushing' the issue. I am living in cali now for the last 9 mos, she in hawaii. I will not pursue the divorce, and we have already agreed on division of assets(not on paper). I have some stock on e-trade and a rollover from the 401k from my previous job in hawaii. Is there a way to hide my assets in case she changes her mind and hires an attorney? ie. can I cash out my 401k and stock and put it in my closet? I have a lawyer friend in hawaii, but he isn't familiar with divorce law. Anyone have some advice?
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Hi Indecision,<P>I'm not familiar with divorce law in the states, but you might want to try <A HREF="http://www.divorcenet.com" TARGET=_blank>www.divorcenet.com </A> they have boards relating to divorce law for each state pretty much, and there are a lot of knowledgable people there that can help. But just a word to the wise, there are some 'troll's and it can be very volatile over there, so take any attitude with a grain of salt. <P>Good Luck <P>I-am<P>[This message has been edited by I-am (edited September 05, 2001).]<P>[This message has been edited by I-am (edited September 05, 2001).]<p>[This message has been edited by I-am (edited September 05, 2001).]
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