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#702452 09/05/01 06:15 AM
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He's getting crazier and crazier.... He had the nerve to tell me that he had hoped I would change my mind and basically accept psycho OW into the lives of my children with open arms. WHATEVER!!!! That will never happen. He has skated along with few bumps in his little fantasy land. I think he's wondering why I won't just continue to let him do so.... GRRRHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!

#702453 09/05/01 01:25 PM
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STAND YOUR GROUND!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!<P><BR>Jill

#702454 09/05/01 03:41 PM
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Hi Ashley-<P>WHAT! Is he doing drugs...<P>Well, he's got to try you know. Right now he probably can't get the time of day from most people, and they always want to show all their friends and family how wonderful this new person is so that they will all quite naturally accept them. BLAH! I guess he thinks your acceptance would open the door to everyone else's and then he and the homewrecker can actually live happyily ever after (regardless of how he dumped you on the side of the road for dead!).<P>Ashley, I think not...she's the roadkill, not you.<P>How's stuff?<P><P>------------------<BR>Kathy

#702455 09/05/01 03:44 PM
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Well my reaction to my h taking the kids out with OW is to leave the country!!! He knows this sped up my going. I was going anyway, but I will not accept him putting our kids in her company. No way...stand your ground. It is NOT acceptable.

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The saddest part of all is that I can do nothing if he decides to introduce them since we are now divorced. His judgement has been quite flawed up to this point, so why did I think he would use better judgement about this? <P>My girls are having so many problems and he wants them to meet the whore? And for me to accept it? <P>He "says" they come first and he is more than a disneyland dad. I said how is that? He said he is trying to teach them morals and values. HELLLLLOOOOOOO!!!!!!! Oh, I could go on and on. <P>The stuff that comes out of his mouth it pure OW psycho talk. I told him not to be swayed by a psycho trashy whore who is not even a mother and SAID she didn't care about my kids and SAID she was jealous of my kids. Was I a little harsh? LOL.<P>Kathy:<P>How are YOU???? I'll write you tonight after the girls are in bed.<P>Ash

#702457 09/05/01 04:19 PM
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BTW, thanks for reassuring me that I am not the one who is crazy here. These WS's have a strange way of turning everything around....


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