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Whew, what a crazy ride. This is my first post here. Luckily I found this site the day after I found my wife with another man. Fortunately, Plan A was already how I was acting. I want to commend Dr. Harley for this website and to let anyone else know that Plan A does make a different. Though its tough at times especially since the incentive you get back from your spouse is in my case almost nothing, by never straying from this plan my wife has gone from packing her bags and moving out to wanting to slow this all down and give some time to think. It has reminded her of why she married me and has let her know that it is not a huge effort for me to be the person she needs. If you can act as you do in Plan A going through the absolute worst time in your life you will easily be able to do it when you are getting more incentive with your spouse. I am writting this to commend the plan and to inspire people like myself that even though it can be tough at times don't ever give up. Your marriage is to important not to try everything you can to save it.
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Joined: Jul 2001
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Hi GoodGuy,<P>Welcome here...someone will probably send you the links to useful sites.<P>Must be horrible to have actually found them together....most of us are just suspecting at first.<P>You have logic on your side as regards to your actions so far. But be warned, Plan A is so hard. Lots of good stuff coming from you, and not a lot in return. But keep trying, and keep posting, we are here for you<P>Take care,
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Welcome Goodguy. I think we already have a poster names "a good guy", or "a good man", I can't keep up, but we can never have too much "good" around here in my opinion.<P>You have a great outlook on saving a marriage and a positive outlook. Good luck and continue to read the site, and post, you will find a lot of support from others' in Plan A. <P>I am not in Plan A anymore, I just recently ended it "again" after a very hard time period in life. I believe you need friends and support more than ever in Plan A. Good luck!<BR>
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I posted for the first time this morning too but it sounds like you’re in much better shape than I am. Kudos for taking the bull by the horns early instead of waiting around like I did. I hope everything works out for you and hang in there.
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