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I'm 2 weeks into plan B, my divorce just came thru and the W wants to come to my sons baseball game. She had no intrest all season and now says she's comming to the game, Wensday night. What do I do? ignore her, leave when she gets there, or just be nice. She has left me a few messages on the answering machine telling me she hopes I can some day be happy and then asks if I can pick the boys up early after I told her 2 weeks ago that I cant do anything for her and dont want to speak to her or see her. Can some one give some opinions Please.<BR>Thanks Ken
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\<p>[This message has been edited by HollyAnn (edited July 07, 1999).]
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Thanks Holly, I'm just having trouble with seeing her. Every time I see her it rips my heart out. I'm trying to do this plan B thing but it's tuff. I'm hoping to loose my feelings for her but when I see her it's like She just left. My god its been almost 2 years and I still hurt. My doc tells me it can last for ever if I keep seeing her and talking to her. Whats plan B have to say about this situation? Damm I feel like a Dog!!!!!!!!
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I'v been on antidepressants for two years. Have done everything I could to please her for 1 1/2 years even to the extent that I got the divorce for her to show her I wanted her to be happy. Now I'm just trying to get rid of the pain. I think My W is heading for a fall, she's been in this mid life thing for a while. Hanging with younger girls and dating a guy 15 years younger than her (shes 40). I wonder if she'll ever wake up. My doc says there will be a time when she'll want to come back but says it could be 5 or more years. I'll never give up hope. Just pains me to see her
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Ken the way to stop thinking about your wife is to develop a relationship with another woman. Become active in some of the social and athletic clubs. Work on improving yourself. Take a course in public speaking, photography, art,sailing etc. Join a hiking club or rock climbing etc. Live life to the fullest. The best revenge for all the crap your wife piled on you is to be happy.Don't give her the satisfaction of seeing you unhappy. Best wishes.
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Funny you mentioned being happy, the W called on Monday after not hearing from me for a week and a half and getting the final divorce papers. She expressed she cares for me and wants to see me happy some day. As for the other things I have gone back to to playing golf at tournement level and I do have a woman that knows how I feel for my W but stays anyway. Maybe if I can get rid of my feelings for the W I'll be able to love her. Who knows?
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