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#703269 09/12/01 06:37 PM
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Just got served today. WS gave no indication. I guess now I cannot trust that she will abide by our verbal agreement of asset division. Will now be hiring an attorney.

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((((((((((((((((indecision))))))))))))))))<P>So, so sorry it has come to this. Why don't they seem able to be upfront about anything?<P>Yess see an attorney, it will protect your best interests. I am so sorry.<P>Jacky

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Hey,<BR>I'm so sorry, I know this must be a hard day for you! It was a very hard day for me when I was served. Husband didn't tell me either. Although he did have the gall to call me and ask me if I got the papers and to tell me he didn't get his copy yet and would I mind if he came over to read my copy. GEEEZ!<P>Hugs to you!!!<BR>ANNA<BR>

#703272 09/13/01 12:13 AM
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Yeah it's really sad that is has come to this. However I'm more disappointed that she did not extend the courtesy of informing me ahead of time since I had already been mentally prepared for this day. Anyway, wish me luck in retaining some of my assets.<P>Inde

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<BR> I really feel for you; dealing with these people (WS) suck. My prayers for your peace of mind, recovery, and for the love you deserve.

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It happened the same way to me, then she wanted me to just let her lawyer do the work LOL, that was the problem it was her lawyer. Protect yourself and do not fight for the small stuff and stay focused just treat the D as a bussiness deal, Hopefully you live in an equal distribution state and it will be fairly easy to keep half and to pay half, I feel for you I know how bad this all sucks and how sencless it all seems, I can only say that this seems to be all there is in the end.<P>

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(((( Indecision ))))<P>Hey buddy, I was down that same road in May and yes no verbal or written commitments made without the advice of councel are any good. Sorry you're where you're at for I've walked the path and the only advise I can offer is that whenever you come to a fork in road, choose the high ground for He shall be the judge of how we lived our lives.<P>Trust me on this, I had agreements signed out the butt, all of them went out the window but I still walked the high ground. In the end when I walked out of the court house for the last time, I knew that I did all that I could do and that I faught the good fight, no regrets about that.<P>Take care, brother.<P>------------------<BR>Love, Bill<P>-There are none so blind as those who refuse to see!-<BR>-Stand up and do the right thing, even if your standing alone.-

#703276 09/15/01 03:10 AM
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Thank you all for the support. I will hold my head up high and let God do the rest.

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I agree with Family Man. Dealing with “these people” does suck! Why do they insist on being deceptive and when will they start treating us will just a little respect or consideration. I feel for you.

#703278 09/15/01 10:56 AM
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Cos they're in the fog, and they think they are justified...and if they don't thin so, they'll invent history to MAKE it all seem plausible...except it only is to themselves.<P>So they don't treat us with the respect we deserve because they fully believe that we don't deserve it.


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