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Hi! I am new here and it looks like I am going to be glad I found this site! Me and my H have been married for 12 yrs this past June. Ever since about 6 yrs ago he has started threating me with Divorce everytime we get in an agrument? We had one last night and he told me that I he would rather me take back his birthday present and just serve him some divorce papers. Is this normal in all marriages or am I just wondering why he would tell me these things if he loved me? He has said it so much to me that I am numb to it now and don't know that it would bother me if we did divorce. I married so young and too feel like I missed out on so much I was 18 and had kids 2 yrs later so all I have ever known is marriage and threats of divorce from him for the last couple of yrs. He is also always asking me if I am running around on him. It is almost everyday that he asks me that. I am so tired of all the questioning from him and threats! <BR>Please help me somone! I would love some help from anyone!<BR>
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Hello and welcome to MB. Sorry you're here though!!!<P>Have you looked at everything you can on the home page, about emotional needs, love bank, love busters and Plan A and Plan B? There are articles and forums on most of these. Also you need to search abbreviations, as we use a lot here.<P>I have heard of your exact problem, and it seems to be a type of manipulation from your h (husband). For some reason he is getting a kick out of saying this to you.<P>But from his questions about you running around I would think maybe it's something else, too....he MAY be having an A (affair), or at least thinking about it. Before you say he never would, most of us here thought that, too. And a lot of us came here with problems, and people suggested this and we said, no way! But 9/10 times it seems to be the case.<P>He may also be abusive...I don't know enough about this to advise you, but others here may be able to. Saying things like that ot you is a form of verbal abuse.<P>How do you react when he says these things to you? Do you think your reaction feeds his needs in some way? Just a thought.<P>Anyway, keep posting, there are so many good people here that can help you.<P>Take care!
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