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Well it has been a week since my wife moved back home but she won't acknowledge me. Last night I tried to speak with her. She asked if it had to do with our son and I said no, she just turned and walked away and went to bed.<P>I feel so lost and helpless almost consumed by my desire for my wife to open up to me so that I can better understand what it is she feels. What a lousy day.
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tbbman,<P>I shouldn't be giving advice - OK? So, take it with a bushel of salt. <P>I know it's hard. I remember during the first month after W moved out - I would go to see the baby (and W) and she was SO BEAUTIFUL (W, that is) and she would talk to her nephew and ignore me. It really hurt. One time in particular, she was nursing the baby in a rather provocative pose with me there... <ouch!><P>That night when I got home I just couldn't sleep.<P>Fortunately, things are better now. Keep the faith. Keep trying. Of course, I'm still not sleeping.<P>-AD
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<BR>From what I understand it takes time for them to open up if ever. Keep working plan A. She is home and that gives you a chance.<BR>
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Any reason to believe that there is EA going on? Sounds like my situation of a year ago and that turned out to be the case. Hang in there.<p>[This message has been edited by hurtinsoul (edited September 17, 2001).]
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by hurtinsoul:<BR><B><BR>[This message has been edited by hurtinsoul (edited September 17, 2001).]</B><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>Lou, is that you? Where've you been?<P>AGG
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