How do you face the one you love when they do not love you? I am terrified of facing him and falling completly apart. That is what started this whole mess of him wanting a divorce to begin with....Me crying over nothing...(because of pregnancy)<P>I do not know how to handle the situation and all. I am due to deliver in about a week and I am terrified...to see him...I love him dearly and he wants nothing to do with me other than I am the mother of his baby. I am sorry to vent all of this on you all but, I need some encouragement or help on how to handle the whole situation. He will be notified after I deliver and am out of surgery and awake...(tubal ligation) I figure he will not see the baby until I get home (my parents house none the less) which is going to make things a little more difficult?<P>Any Ideas or suggestions.<P>K

(((((((((((movingahead)))))))))))))<P>What an awful time for you...it's hard enough being pregnant and delivering babies, yet to do it alone. Well, you won't be alone in spirit andway, we are all here to help you.<P>You need to really look after yourself now, get lots of rest and prepare for the new life you are bringing into the world. Keep your energy levels up...hard I know at this end of pregnancy, but eating and sleeping well can help that.<P>AS far as facing this man who has told you he no longer loves you - we all had to do this, and no, it isn't easy. I personally was shaking like a leaf, and didn't know what to say to him. So I came here, and the advice I got was to not LB, be pleasant, look good, Plan A all the way and do NOT bring up the relationship, ask him for anything, tell him you love him....keep it as though he is a friend.<P>Putting on a brave face might seem impossible, but believe me if I can do it, so can you. Save your tears until he is gone and then cry your eyes out. <P>I hope this helps a little.<P>BTW, it can be a very rewarding experience keeping your head high in their presence...you will feel very proud of yourself.<P>Take care.