Guys, after the confrontation on the phone, I went by to pick up my boy for soccer practice. When I called to let her know I was just down the road, she was as cold as ICE! She answered the phone "What!" I smiled and said as happily as I could "Hey! Just down the road I will be right their for Hunter". Click. When I got back to drop him off, she was outside, dressed to the hilt and looking, well pretty good. That is neither here nor there. I blew her off in a nice way. Hugged the kids, played with them, laughed with them, and said by to them all. I was in such a good mood. <P>I guess my next quandry is where to go from here. I am pretty sure I will just continue to be the best father and husband possible. That is a win-win for ME! Anyway, I will not be initiating any contact with her unless absolutely necessary (isnt that in plan A) and just be happy, upbeat and show her that it just DOESNT bother me that much. There is such joy and peace in the TRUTH! I am so relieved. The ball is in her court now! I have made my peace and am just happy to know that it wasnt entirely my fault that she left. There were "other" things involved!<P>Thanks for all of the support!

What typically happens from this point with respect to her? That is, what are some typical outcomes after the confrontation?

I don't know whats next cause i never got to where you are right now. She left and that was it for me it was like I never existed. Anyway It is good to hear you are feeling good about you and trying to move forward. I quess you take it day by day and see what happens, stick to your plan it sounds like you are getting some result or response.<P>