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I am so tired right now......it has been so long since there has been true laughter in our house.....both my husband and I see ourselves as victims......<P>and although I am willing to try and work on the marriage.....he just seems to want to be miserable and place blame on me for everything....<P>he is continually bringing up the past and not wanting to move forward....he says he will move forward if I agree to his conditions......I have agreed to many already and it seems to me that he just keeps making new conditions for me to agree too.....I don't want to agree to any more......and we are a stalemate......<P>this has been going on for years......and I am so tired right now...tired of trying.....<P><BR>
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Welcome to the forum; sorry to hear you need to be here, but glad you found it.<P>What's the background in your marriage? Ages? How long married? Kids? What's the "past" he keeps bringing up? What are these "conditions" you refer to? <P>Are any of the usual suspects - drug abuse, alcoholism, infidelity, physical abuse - involved here? Were they in the past?<P>Have you read the other info on the website- articles, basic concepts, etc?<P>
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background......wow.....I am afraid that if you heard just my side...that you would end up hating me.....or my husband.....he says that I make him look bad......<P>yes there has been infidelity.....I was the WS....not gonna make any excuses.....it was wrong...and if I could go back and undo it I would in a moment...but I cannot.....<P>My husband continually brings up my infidelity....at least once a week for the last 3 years.....he says I haven't changed....<P>I have quit the job I had.....I have had no contact with the OM ....I have cut off contact with friends that husband had a **problem** with.....I feel I am becoming isolated...and husband wants me to cut off contact with my family.....and other friends also......<P>He is using God's word to punish me......
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