Yeah!!! And you have LOTS of character.<P>Plan B, Hmmmm.<P>Yes it would be difficult for you, because she is there nearly every night seeing the kids. BUT, it isn't supposed to involve kid visitations. In Plan B, you are meant to allow the WS to see kids, just not you...how that would be attained is going to be hard, because of the existing arrangement.<P>If you Plan B YOU don't want contact with HER, unless, as I take it, you have to communicate for kid welfare and business. Visitation is usually carried out via a third person...you drop them somewhere, go home, and later she picks them up. Then later she drops them there, goes home, and then YOU pick them up.<P>Yuck for the kids, particularly in your case where you both have strived to keep things normal for your babies. But sometimes you need these boundaries. It is when you feel you have had nearly enough, DBT. You have to think of YOURSELF....not the wife, not the kids, but YOU...preserving the little bit of love left.<P>I personally do not think you are ready for Plan B...you still love her so much.<P>Just my thoughts,<P>Jacky