I read your post on Weirded out's thread and I was so touched, I cried.<P>Are you in still in plan A? Just curious. From what I remember you haven't been in plan A long and Dr. Harley recommends a minimum of 6 months to show your spouse you've changed. If you are still in plan A, I would like to make some suggestions. You may have already tried, and I hope you don't think I am being to pushy by making suggestions but here goes.<P>1. Write her a letter telling her everything you've said to us. <P>2. Send her a copy of Diamond Rio's tape with a note telling her that song reminds you of her.<P>3. A couple of weeks later, send her a dozen roses and put something from your heart on the card, such as how beautiful she is...<P>Anyway, just some thoughts. I have read some of your post and I do know that she had you sign papers for a divorce. I just think there may still be a chance for you guys. Maybe months down the road but I still think their may be hope.<P>ANNA