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Guys,<BR>Wife has agreed to meet me at the county park with the kids and talk for a little bit. For those who dont know, I uncovered an affair (ea/pa, dont know yet). She agreed to talk. I didnt say about what.<P>Any advice on how I should handle this and what i should say.<P>
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Rob, dear deep breath deep breath..<BR>Don't ask alot of questions you are scared to hear the answer too.<BR>Let her start the dicussian. Offer simple replys.<BR>Be the first to say it is time too go I'll talk to you later.<BR>Good luck.<BR>Keep me posted.<BR>Wishing you well<BR>Janet
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Hey Rob<P>Be slow to react to whatever she says. Think carefully before you reply, as emotions will be running high if you are going to try get answers about the affair. If things become too much for you walk away. <P>Take care of yourself.<BR>I wish you luck.<BR>Pantha
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Listen to her speak and keep listening, <P>
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by jabber:<BR>Listen to her speak and keep listening, <BR><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I'll second that- although since you asked for the meeting, don't you set the agenda?<BR>
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Just listen to what she has to say, remember what we have all told you about their addiction and how they really are distorting things now. Don't become angry at her not yet anyway.<P>JIll<P>------------------<BR>live for today for there may not be a tomorrow
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