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<p>[This message has been edited by lost-in-life (edited September 28, 2001).]
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Welcome, you have found a nice place to express yourself, I am sorry you are going through this right now and feel so bad for those kids, they are the true victims. Life will get better and perhaps it is best I don't know, perhaps you getting help will help him to seek help. either way you will come out a better person. Take care of yourself<P>
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Im so sorry that you are here and are going through this. Many of us here are going through the same process and will give you good advise and encouragement. Go through this site and READ READ READ this will help . Take good care of yourself. One suggestion which has helped my children, Have you thought of taking your eldest to Play therapy ( Counciling) ? They are the ones that are mostly affected in the end.
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As the others said, welcome. This site is full of people and information that will help you get through this no matter what path you choose. The biggest thing you have to deal with right now is those children. I'm sure that they are just devistated. Make sure that you bring consistancy into their lives to the point of redundancy. Wake up at the exact same time, eat at the exact same time, do the exact same rituals at bedtime. Because right now they do not feel safe and it's up to you to show them that they are safe and that you're not going to abandon them like their father did. The regressive behaviors should start to deminish as their comfort level and security level rises.<P>Hugs, Thoughts, & Prayers<P>------------------<BR>Love, Bill<P>-There are none so blind as those who refuse to see!-<BR>-Stand up and do the right thing, even if your standing alone.-
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<p>[This message has been edited by lost-in-life (edited September 28, 2001).]
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