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Yikes....how does one do this???<P>Is there some kind of list?<BR>I'm worried about forgetting something.<P>I'm thinking about making a list. And having 2 columns next to it. One for whether or not he wants that item. And another for the value of the item.<P>I think I'll probably ending up giving him most of it. But theres a lot of valuable stuff.<P>Any advice?<P>
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We each made a room by room inventory of items and perceived values. Then I merged the lists and averaged the values, unless something was way out of sink. Then we each took a copy and marked what we wanted. Then again, merged the lists and only had to argue over a couple of small items. We tried to keep total value of property at 50/50.<P>Of course, once all this was done and agreed upon, she somehow changed her mind about the values, but that's another story.<P>Good Luck......<P>------------------<BR>Love, Bill<P>-There are none so blind as those who refuse to see!-<BR>-Stand up and do the right thing, even if your standing alone.-
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