My STBX was given papers on Friday by my MIL. These papers were to be signed by my STBX just to make him aware that I filed for divorce.<P>I spoke to my FIL yesterday to find out if he received these papers, signed them and gave them back to my MIL so she could mail them back to my attorney. The reason I wanted my MIL to mail them back is because my STBX is so irresponsible he would probably toss them in the car and not sign and mail them back. My FIL told me that my STBX took the papers with him. My FIL also told me that when my STBX was given the papers, he was hesitant in taking them and had an upset look on his face. My FIL said that he thinks my STBX might be regretting his decision on wanting a divorce. I told my FIL that's too bad because I'm not stopping the divorce, I'm going through with it.<P>No one knows what is going through my STBX's mind. My in-laws are upset because they have no contact with him, doesn't know where he is living and no phone number to call him, except they see him on Friday's at bowling. No one knows what happened or what changed in my STBX's life. I don't think anyone will know.<P>My STBX stopped over on Friday and I made the comment to him that one day he might realize that "happy land" isn't what he really wanted and will be knocking on my door in a couple months or a year. He didn't respond the way I thought he would by saying that once this is over, its over. He responded by saying that I may have someone else in my life by then. Wonder if he is contemplating his decision.