<BR>I found this site from a thread dated 12/2000. A very good site.<BR> <BR> <A HREF="http://www.divorceasfriends.com" TARGET=_blank>www.divorceasfriends.com</A> <P> Also, a good associated site. <A HREF="http://www.effectiveliving.com/" TARGET=_blank>http://www.effectiveliving.com/</A> <P> Dan<BR> <p>[This message has been edited by Family Man (edited October 03, 2001).]

Hi Dan,<P>Thanks for bringing those web sites back up. "Effective Living" was a good site for me to visit and refuel my tanks today!<P>Hoping all is best as it can be for you!<P>Gayle

As for song lyrics, here is the one that tears my heart apart. Substitute "Wife" for "Finance" in the song. Titled, "How Did She Look". Performed beautifully by Mel Torme.<P>So you ran into my former fiancé.<BR>You saw her dancing last night in some café.<BR>Gee I haven&#8217;t seen her since a year ago,<BR>And there are so many things, I am dying to know.<P><BR>How did she look?<BR>Did she seem happy?<BR>While they were dancing?<BR>Did he whisper things in her ear?<P>And tell me, did she seem to welcome his attention?<BR>Did he appear to be ...sincere?<P>What was he like?<BR>Was he good looking?<BR>Was there a smile upon her face?<BR>Or did she look bored?<P>Not that I really care,<BR>I know our love affair can never be.<P>But how did she look?<BR>And did she ask about...me?<P>Not that I really care,<BR>I know our love affair can never be.<P>But how did she look?<BR>And did she ask about...me?