<BR>What are anyone's thoughts or opinons on the subject of seperation??..I mean when a husband and a wife are in another state and seperated and have had little contact since the seperation..Do you think it's easier to forget about the other person and to stop having feelings for them because they are not apart of your life..That's my situation i've been seperated 3 months stbx is in another state and we rarely communicate mainly through email once in a great while on the phone..I still miss him, but he rarely gets in touch with me..Is he forgetting me??..Will he ever love me again with so much space and little contact???

Hi,<P>I have this same problem...my H is in a different country...I left him there but he had left me ten weeks prior to that.<P>I sit around and torture myself over that...for him there was OW, he said it was not physical, but I bet it sure is now. So I'm wondering if I had stayed, would things have gotten better.<P>Well, whether my H is near me or apart, the fact is he is still in the fog, and he can tell himself anything he wants about his feelings for me. And there is nothing I can do.<P>I don't think it would make him forget you exactly, but of course when you're not in the same town, he is free to do whatever he wants, and those choices he makes may be something you don't like...<P>I am just glad I'm not around to see it anymore, and I DID need this space for me. Maybe you need space, too, but you don't see it just yet. We ALL need time to reflect on our marriages, and this might be your time, too.<P>Nina