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Why is it so unfair that my stbx is going through with this divorce and he is free from everything..He is free from responsibility of being a husband and a father and finding someone else who doesnt have children yet..Why is this so unfair..I'm here working 3 jobs to try and support me and my baby because i have all the responsibilites?? I never get to be a mother to my soon to be 4 month old baby because i'm working trying to provide for us..And my stbx is going through with all this and he has no worries...Are me and my baby that worthless that were can be abandoned that easily why is this happening to me..Don't we deserve to be wanted and not just tossed to the side...How can my stbx be so uncaring why can't he just love us and want us to be a family...why are we being given up on...
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JCM,<P>I wish I had the answers. I guess your H just wasn't up to the task - he just wasn't Dad material. I very sorry for your pain.<P>Does your H work? Can you get child support from him so you don't have to work so much?<P>-AD<p>[ October 15, 2001: Message edited by: AbandonedDad ]
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He left us and took the entire savings and basically everything with was over 20k, he is paying off medical bills but he left us with nothing..No he isn't working right now he decided to go back and finish his B.A he is now living with his mom and dad..How easy he has it no responsibility..And so easy for him to start over..When he promised me he wouldn't give up on us..I just find it hard to understand why he's giving up..Why he doesn't care enough that our son isn't going to have a mom because i'm trying to support us or a dad because he didn't want to help support us(and not really just financially)
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You are not worthless and either is your baby, please stop beating yourself for the choices he has made. He will regret what he has done someday, the unfortunate thing for him is you and the baby might not be there for him. Pick yourself up and brush yourself off, hold your head high because you are doing everything you can right now, you have nothing to be ashamed of, and you can make it throught this
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