My husband has been running with the same woman about 3 years that I can figure. We have been living separately for 1.5 yrs. He keeps telling me he still has hope for our marriage. Things have gotten nasty. Teen age daughters found porno pics of girlfriend at his house this summer. This confirmed to us that he definitely had an OW. I have read once affair is reveiled to family and friends it usually ends. Should I allow my 22 yr old son to reveil the pics to husband's brothers? H still denies any affair says she is an "acquaintance". I have gone into a no contact phase (my daughters' will not speak or visit with him either) with husband hoping he would miss all of us.