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My husband has been running with the same woman about 3 years that I can figure. We have been living separately for 1.5 yrs. He keeps telling me he still has hope for our marriage. Things have gotten nasty. Teen age daughters found porno pics of girlfriend at his house this summer. This confirmed to us that he definitely had an OW. I have read once affair is reveiled to family and friends it usually ends. Should I allow my 22 yr old son to reveil the pics to husband's brothers? H still denies any affair says she is an "acquaintance". I have gone into a no contact phase (my daughters' will not speak or visit with him either) with husband hoping he would miss all of us. Is there any hope of anything?
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lght, <P>I see that you are new here. Welcome!<P>I'm just writing to keep your posting near the top of the list. As time passes without reply - they kind of "sink" down the page and then onto later pages.<P>Yes, there is always hope. You will have to tell us much more about your situation before we have any chance of giving any useful advice - and I'm going to leave that advice to others with situations more similar to yours.<P>Hang in there, help is on the way.<P>-AD
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I am wondering how it will benifit his brothers to see or know about these pics???? I also think it will just aotrage him if you let them see pics. I think it best to just stick to your no contact plan, it seems to work.
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Without pics will his brothers believe the "acquiantance" story? or that he left his 5 children and me for OW?<BR>lght
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My ex said many things to her family about why she left me and also said things to my family. I said nothing and it did not take them long to figure out the truth especially after she moved in with other man. It might upset them and turn them against you if you are the one to point it out, I am sure they will discover the truth on there own.
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I doubt that they would care. My H's father didn't.
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