I want to thank all you for the support I've received here, but I also need to start coming here less. My situation just doesn't fit with the MB theory and it's painful to read stories that could easily be mine.<P>Please go to the library and read some of the divorce survival books - even if you don't want a divorce. Almost all of them talk about making a stronger, better you - and that's where you need to be whether you reconcile or not. If you're stronger and know who you are and what your strengths are, you'll be able to handle whatever life sends you more easily.<P>Thanks for being there when I needed someone to talk to. It really did help. I probably won't leave entirely but I do need to spend less time here and more time working on me.<P>thanks<BR>t.

Hey Sister...<P>You are already a better person....<BR>You never cheated on your H.<P>I must say, you have the right idea... to work on ones self..<P>could ya list the books you've been reading?<BR>I think all the books I ever read were on restoring the marriage... nope never happen for me. <P>We are so close in the story lines... my exh had several "heavy flirtings" while on business... I'll never forget the day in therapy he told about them all... even one he said he wasn't sure if "I made love" because he was drunk. He had about 7 other "heavy flirtings... all the while bringing me home gifts from his travels, telling me he loved me ... blah...blah...blah.<P>So.... the hills and the valleys will continue... I still have them and yesterday was my second anniversary to d-day for me.<BR>I know my latest postings have been so negative.... I finally started my monthly cycle if ya know what I mean...lol... <BR>Heck since going through all of this... I've skipped several months in a row... just the stress I guess....<P>Take care... You're doing good by working on you !!!<P>Blessings....<BR>s

BB,<P>It is always hard to close one chapter of a book and move on to the next. But remember the Story just keeps getting better.<P>Congradulations to you, you are a wonderful human being......You will do well and go far.<P>Come back keep us posted on the Life of BillBailey.<P>Hugs, prayers and best wishes<P>-Kat- [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img]

<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by scoick:<BR><STRONG>Hey Sister...<BR>could ya list the books you've been reading?<BR>I think all the books I ever read were on restoring the marriage... nope never happen for me.<BR></STRONG><HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>scoick <BR>I listed the books as a new topic.<P>Good luck.