Hi, <p>I see you are on-line again, but not showing on IM. I noticed you tried to chat yesterday, but I had to go away for a bit, and when I got back I couldn't get in touch....so if you'd like to chat, let me know.<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky

Hey Jacky,<p>It's nice to see a thread with my name on it. Thanks for caring. Sorry I wasn't really on-line when you posted. I was online briefly and forgot to log out of IM.<p>W was here again today. I think she just wanted to make peace. She twice commented about what I said on the phone last night - that "I am sick of her". She asked if it was really true. I said I don't know. She asked me to walk over to a yard sale in the neighborhood with her. I agreed. We bought a pair of shoes for the baby and one other thing.<p>She was going to take her nephew shopping for clothes, but doesn't have any money in her account - so she was returning the very expensive sweater I gave her when I came home from NYC. I gave it to her just to let her know that I still loved her even after she confessed. She said the style was "too old" for her. Whatever I give her (clothes) she says that about. The ladies in the store told me that the same style was sold in the "juniors" (teen) department, so I thought it was safe. I'm glad she is at least being resourceful enough to return it and not waste the money. It was almost $200 for the sweater and a light turtleneck to go under it.<p>She should be back soon to take N shopping. I'm not sure he wants to go, but he does need some clothes. We'll see. Nephew was still sleeping at almost 3pm. I woke him and cooked "breakfast" for him.<p>-AD

Hi AD,<p>I was reading your other thread and getting updates from there, so I knew things weren't great on the homefront.<p>I hope it went better for you when she came back.<p>Sometimes I think it does the WS good to receive a little bit of LB'ing, because it has the potential to make them think a little. I don't think I would keep doing it, but she is now not so sure of you and that can be to your advantage.<p>Keep well.<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky

Jacky,<p>Thanks for keeping up with my story. I updated my other thread - but didn't have the energy to give much in the way of details.<p>You are probably right. I shouldn't do/say things that bother my W - if I still want to keep her. I've been thinking about trying a "Plan B" or Dobson letter. But, I've got to see the baby - and can't avoid seeing W. Maybe I can just ask that she not call and talk to me - and not hang around while I'm with the baby - and let her learn to do without whatever support I give her - until she decides that she wants to try to save the marriage (which I don't expect).<p>-AD

AD, once again on line right now if you want to chat.<p>Think really hard about Plan B...how long has Plan A been?