Hey does anyone else feel like i do, because of the divorce i feel rejected. Mostly because i couldn't change his mind.. I feel like i second guess myself now..Has anyone felt this way too..??

I think it is only normal to feel this way, We tend to keep rethinking our situations and what has happened. Just when we think we are ok we rethink it some more. Take care of yourself

Thanks i guess it's also i feel like i failed and i hate to fail at anything!!

Think we have all felt that way during the break up of a marriage and its final dissolution. As for feeling that you failed, turn it around if you were not the one that caused the marriage to fall apart.<p>Personally, I don't like to hear people say that they failed because their marriage failed. It takes two people to make a successful marriage and only one person to destroy it. If you weren't the one to undermine the foundation, then you didn't fail. The abandoned spouse will be hearing a lot of "it's your fault", "why didn't you do things this way", "if you had only .... ". Don't allow those people to use you as a trash bin for their negativity. If you have tried all that you could to make a go of your marriage and your spouse has still left, then you have nothing to feel guilty for (at least in my eyes) and should stand tall as a survivor, not a victim.<p>LMOLM