Oh boy....I need some ideas and thoughts here. I typed into another page what has been happening to me, and got some really good ans. So I wanted to find somewhere or somehow to help a friend of mine.

YES....she is my friend (not me!)<p>Anyway...she knows all about what happened between me and my hus., and she is actually experiencing some trouble of her own. For years now her hus. who is actually a very nice person, a great father, or really a great hus. except for his obsession with jealousy. He won't hardly let her breathe. She is very close to her family as I am, and he won't even let her go next door w/o giving her the 3rd degree or why did you take so long, or you'd rather spend time w/them than me. If she is not at home or out of pocket he wants an answer to it. She goes to church, he doesnt...(rarely)...if she goes to eat w/family and friends, he questions it. It's really as bad or worst than I describe. Except hold on....it gets even more interesting.<p>Well....they just moved next door to me w/in the last few years. They had a friend (guy friend) help out to do some landscaping. This guy is not a extra special prize, just a nice guy. Well....he is attracted to her. Calls her on the phone complements her, makes her feel good about herself in ways her hus. doesnt. Nothing has happened here. I believe she is attracted to the idea of his not quesioning her every move, and the flatery. Well. I understand, but have to remember "hey" this is what just got my hus in trouble. Well.... she knows that also, we talk. I want her to be happy she deserves that. What she really needs is advise how to get her hus. off this jealouse kick. The other (guy) in time that would and will fade off , especially if I could just give her some really good advise on how to help her with this jealousy thing. I don't know, is there anyone out there with a simular prob. or know of anyone? I would like to here your input.<p>Thank you !
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