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I am so confused. When he told me it was over,I completly went into save mode. ANd did all i could to save our marrige. Now after only the second time of his coming down to visit his kids he says He does not want it ended. He loves me and wants things to change. <BR> I selfishly am feeling like does he not know the pain he has caused me and the kids. And I am so scared that all I can think is will he do this again, and if he does I cannot take it. I moved to my parents house when he ended it which is 4 hrs from him, and he is not mentioning moving in together. He just wants to get another job and I guess then we live together again. Well That could be months. I just feel like screaming. THis is all so confusing. !!!!! Thanks for letting me Vent.
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Now What:<BR>1) Counceling<P>I feel that you're lucky. So close to each other and able to work it out. I would suggest that you first step back and ask yourself "what do I want?". How old are the kids and how old are you. I know what it feels like to want to spend the rest of your life with someone, but you both have to be willing to work it out. Are you willing to work it out? I have talked with councelors and the most important thing is that you both want to work it out. TRY IT. But don't get too close until you feel it in your bones that it's going to work.<P>I'm sorry that this is so scatter-brained and if you can give some more info I might understand what you are searching for. Or better yet, search yourself and find what you want.<BR>LOL<BR>Allison
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