h and i are filing for divorce.at this point i can't stand him. i hate the ground he walks on.he is living w ow again. she knows he was fooling around w me since april.he says i only told her to get back at him but there"love is so strong"that they will get past this.<p>only thing is his clothes are at my house b/c he was "proving to his family"that he didn't want to be w me so he moved back in to prove a point.i told him to take his clothes before b/c i don't want him back in the house.well he seems to do things at his leisure and left them there for over a wk.<p>now he is running low on clothes and is pressed to get his stuff. i will give it to him when i get ready i told him it will be in the hallway. i am tired of him always working things on his schedule when he has time and feels like being bothered.<p>at the same he just called me from ow house and left her no. for me to call him and tell him when i would be ok w him coming for his stuff. he is like i don't want to call him there.but in the past i called and yelled and screamed at ow. and i called her to tell her what he was doing. and why is it now that i am making a big deal about calling there. in the past i thought maybe we could work things out.now i just hate him and know its over and will not call there for anything.<p>he isn't talking to his family bc he doesnt like that they meddled in his affair business.and over the last wk has made no attempt to contact his 6 yr old daughter i did tell him to leave her alone but he doesn;t even call her,go to her school or anything.and in the past didnt take full responsibility for the wknds that he had her.<p>now he is so keen on getting visitation rights.
i have no problem w him seeing her but i stated daughter and ow are not to be together. he even wanted me to let daughter sleep over on the wkends.
he doesn't have his own place and my child is not sleeping on ow's couch.he went from one house to the next spent wkends at our house while we were separated.
and he then moved back in for 6wks
daughter thought he was back and i asked if it was safe for her to think her father was back home he said yes.
and then in no time was back living w ow. <p>i do not want my child around them<p>pls post
i am venting and need some respones.
