Just wanted some feedback on whether I'm making too big a deal about a Sunday phone call.<p>About four months ago, I suggested to my ex-W that we change our joint custody schedule so that our 5yo daughter is with each of us every other weeknight, and with each of us for the whole weekend on alternating weekends. Also, Sunday night around 8:30, our daughter should call the "other" parent to say hi and chat. That's the subject of this posting. Ex-W agreed to all this happily, and stuck to it very well, and so did I.<p>The last time our daughter spent the weekend with ex-W, there was no call Sunday night. The next day, I sent her an email just asking, "What happened to the phone call," along with some other minor topics we had to take care of. She emailed back, "Sorry about that" and that was it.<p>Monday night when I picked up my daughter from school, she complained about being sleepy. I asked her why, and she said my ex-W's boyfriend was there until very late Sunday night. Hmm. Was my ex embarrased to have our daughter call her ex-H while her boyfriend was around? No way to find out, and doesn't really matter except for them making our daughter go to be so late, so I never brought it up again.<p>Now tonight, for the second time in a row, no call again. I'm planning on telling ex tomorrow that if she doesn't want our daughter to call, she should tell me, or just tell me she forgot again.<p>Making too much out of a small thing? What do you all think? Thanks!