h never had much of a relationship with his mother.can this be someone who can have a good relationship with any one? <p>he is currently living w ow and saying he wants a divorce.he even went to some cheesy lawyer (free consultation) to disscuss things. i told him i would have to go speak to my own lawyer.i am not gonna just agree with his terms.we also have a 6yr old so there are things that need to be worked out. <p>he hasn't seen his child in the last 2wks and has only spoken to her once but claims she is so important in his life.says all he wants is to see her every other wkend,twice a month.<p>how do you feel ok with that when you have been a part of this child's life for the last 6 yrs and seen her everyday (minus the days you didn't come home) he was the first to hold her when she was born where is the bond?<p>he has never really been close to his mother(yet never told me anything about his issues with his mother)we have know each other 10yrs and have been married for 7.<p>he has cheated throughout the marriage.so can he ever be faithful?he thinks he has changed but change doesn't happen over night.and can you really just change on your own.<p>he wasn't close to his mother,me or his child for the matter.can he really have a rewarding relationship with ow or any woman for that matter?
i would like all opinions
this has really been bothering me.