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Sorry i know everyone is sick of my sobb stories already..I just can't believe how deceptive a stbx H can be. I just found out the real reason why he is not returning the paperwork for the final judgement..I sent him a form that he just needs to sign saying that we have agreed on whatever and just send it back to me thats it..That was in aug..And now opening my mail tonight he filed for custody of our baby in another state where he now lives..I can't believe him, why is he treating me so bad..I never did anything to treat me like this, i never did anything to make him hate me so much..He knows that my baby is the most important thing to me..I work my butt off just because of our son..Some days my baby is the only reason i get up because i know he needs me..I love him so much..My stbx knows this why is he trying to take him from me..I really don't want to hate him but i'm really starting to...sorry i needed to get all this off my chest it really hurts me...
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Jc's_Mommy,<p>No, we're not tired of your stories. We have to be here to help each other. Take a few deep breaths. You should know that almost always the mother gets custody and I think it is even more one-sided when the child is a baby. Also, you have told us that your H has shown little interest in the child. So, I think it would be very unlikely that the court would rule against you.<p>Your baby needs you. You need to be strong. Get your rest. I hope you are sleeping now. Can you afford good legal advice. I hope so.<p>There are many other things I could and probably should say, but I'm too tired right now. I just wanted you to know that somebody was reading your posts.<p>I have a baby - I think only one day different in age from yours - if I remember rightly. She is with her Mom. She will stay with her Mom. I won't try to take primary custody. I love her and miss her when I don't see her, but I know her Mom is the best parent for her right now. Her birthday is Nov. 14th. If I remember correctly, your baby's birthday is the 15th.<p>I hope you can pray - that you can trust God. You need him now. My wife too tells me - told me again just tonight - that sometimes the baby is the only reason that she has for living. This should not be so. You (and my w) need to go beyond that. Life is so good. Try to see the wonder of life each day. Pray. Listen to God. Consider all the ways he has blessed you - even through times of trouble.<p>-AD<p>-AD
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