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Please...I'd like to have opinions on this matter.<P>I feel it is both. Sexual deprivation can lead to difficult sex in future relationships. After I was with a man for a few months I didn't have sex for over a year and then when I reengaged in sexual activity, it was painful at first. <P>I'd like to really hear from men because (I think) I know that the need is greater (i.e. frequent masterbation). Some days I feel like I have to have sex. I usually don't feel satisfied by masterbation. I need a man to bring me to full orgasm to feel satisfied. I guess it's just the feeling of having another stimulate you instead of yourself.<P>Opinions and comments please!!!
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That's a tough one. I really believe it depends on the circumstances. When I was married to my first husband I had no sexual attraction to him what-so-ever. If somebody would have told me that sex was a need I would have laughed. I could have went indefinitely without sex and never thought twice about it. Now, with my second husband it's totally different. We have sex 6-7 times per week and I'm always ready and wanting the next round. Now in answering that question....It's a need if it's a want but if you don't want it, it isn't a need. Make sense?
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Well, I'm the poster child when it comes to how not to handle sexual differences but after being married 17 years and trying everything possible to change the last 8 years "No Sex" I have come to believe that it falls in the "Emotional Needs" & "Physical Needs" section for most men. For men, there are times when it is a physical want. Others it is Emotional. Most men I think that they will admit that it is the lucky man who does lie with his lady in both his body, mind and soul. That is when it is truly the best!<P>mr r
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