My husband of 8 years just started college for a newly decided career. In his class a girl approached him wanting to study with him. They both work weird work schedules and are not able to study when a lot of the others do. The problem? I have accused him and her of flirting, etc. We had a MAJOR blowup a couple of days ago and even spoke of divorce. After a cooling off period we both decided we are not going to let this split us up and we love each other too much. The problem now is I am analyzing EVERYTHING. Example: He didn't say "i love you" when he left for work yesterday; he didn't give me a kiss when he came in from work this morning, etc. It is driving me CRAZY!! Is it me being insecure, is this normal, what??? Any suggestions are welcome.