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My husband of 8 years just started college for a newly decided career. In his class a girl approached him wanting to study with him. They both work weird work schedules and are not able to study when a lot of the others do. The problem? I have accused him and her of flirting, etc. We had a MAJOR blowup a couple of days ago and even spoke of divorce. After a cooling off period we both decided we are not going to let this split us up and we love each other too much. The problem now is I am analyzing EVERYTHING. Example: He didn't say "i love you" when he left for work yesterday; he didn't give me a kiss when he came in from work this morning, etc. It is driving me CRAZY!! Is it me being insecure, is this normal, what??? Any suggestions are welcome.
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Joined: Oct 1999
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What does your heart tell you? He may be flattered by this girl because sometimes people need to see if they are still desired by someone other than their spouses. If your love is true then, it is harmless. But talk to him about it. I know it is hard, but put yourself in his shoes. The Key is to Talk, not argue. If he refuses, and doesn't convince you that there is nothing there then do some more investigating. <P>Bentley
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Thanks for your advise. We did have a heart to heart talk later. He says he doesn't "want" her, his only goal is to get an "A" in the class. I still do not know why I am so paranoid. Maybe it will just take a little time.
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