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Due to infidelity by my wife, I filed for divorce;however, my wife and I still live under the same roof. When I discovered her cheating, I asked her to move out, but she would not because she did not want to leave the house nor child. My attorney told me that she would not advise that I move out since I want custody of my son, and the attorney says that I do not have any grounds for legally get her kicked out of house unless she was putting my son and I in danger. She has no respect at all because she is still contacting her playmate, but still trying to conceal it from me. She lies about where she is going. It is horrible. I feel like I am in between a rock and a hard place. I am not in love with her at this point but I am committed to our marriage if we could reconcile. I do not know what to do and how to react under these circumstances.
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Joined: Sep 2001
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I'm sorry that you're having to go through the frustrating emotional roller coaster ride of infidelity in your marriage. If you truly want to save your marriage, I think this would be a good time for you to read Dr. Harley's book, Surviving An Affair. It will guide you in trying to reconcile after an affair.
Good luck!
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Joined: Sep 2001
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Well, unfortunately, your story is the same as the most of us posting on this website. Please read all you can on this site-start with basic prinicples and Plan A and Plan B. Your spouses behavior sounds textbook to those persons having an affair. It's not nice or fun behavior to the spouse they are cheating on but marriages have been saved even after an affair and the book Surviving an Affair will help explain why affairs happen and how to recover - AND what to do if your spouse is still having an affair and doesn't at the present moment want to recover. It's basically a waiting gamefor the affair to end, and while you wait you do everything you can to make yourself a better person by getting rid of any bad habits and gaining some good new ones. Keep posting with your questions, and go to the recovery section to see how those recovering from an affair are handling things. Good Luck! K
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