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#716434 11/20/01 10:46 PM
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Hi friends,<p>Just a little note to say I am back on line, finally! I am in our new place and things are going very well. The kids are happy and we have great neighbours. <p>I feel okay, but going through an angry phase right now, but like everything else, I'll get over it.<p>Anyway, just wanted to check in!<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky

#716435 11/21/01 12:09 AM
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Glad to know you are settling in. I had been wondering.

#716436 11/21/01 12:28 AM
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I have been wondering too, glad to hear have own place, you really needed that.

#716437 11/21/01 01:00 AM
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Welcome back!<p>I'm glad things went well with your move.<p>I understand about the anger. I go through that about every other day. I think I'm trying to get back into Plan A now, but sometimes it is very hard.<p>-AD

#716438 11/21/01 03:42 AM
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Nina too - It's good to hear you're back. I'm glad there are positives for you.<p> Anger is appropriate, IMHO, but an be difficult to manage.

#716439 11/21/01 08:25 AM
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So glad to hear from you. You were very helpfull to me.
Do not mention anger, that's to mild word for feelings.
riht now I am empty, you can see my recent post: OW is pregnant so I've lost any hope.
love to you

#716440 11/21/01 08:53 AM
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wow, b&d,<p>I was just responding to you!
So, so, sorry for your pain.<p>Thanks for the other responses! So glad to be back....well sort of...heck....you know what I mean!!!!

#716441 11/21/01 10:14 AM
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Hey Jacky,<p>I sure have missed you. It sounds like you are doing well. We've come a long way, ya know?<p>My court hearing is Wednesday and I'm nervous but my love for my H is definately waning. I still see him when he takes kids to school but I don't let it affect me anymore. It is nice to feel more in control again. <p>I'm now looking forward to his fog lifting. Not so he will come back, but so he can see what he lost.<p>Good to hear from you. Any news on the piano?<p>Lynn

#716442 11/21/01 10:23 AM
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Jacky! So good to hear from you. I've missed seeing you around. How does it feel to have your own space? Are the children loving it? Is he sending the piano?

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(((((Jacky)))))<p>Believe me darlin, your Love and Light were truly missed. Glad to see that the children and you are adjusting. Look forward to seeing you around again.<p>Hugs, Thoughts, & Prayers

#716444 11/21/01 06:59 PM
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Thank you all for your kind welcome backs....<p>YES, he is sending the piano. I only found out yesterday, and here's how:<p>I just had the phone connected, and I emailed a short note to H to give him the number, so he could call the kids. Well, he called them, and then asked to speak to me. I refused (I am in Plan B, and didn't feel like hearing from him).<p>So ten minutes later he calls back...I answered because I didn't think it would be him. I said I didn't want to talk to him, and any business he had could be discussed in an email. He was all sorry etc and said he just wanted to tell me the stuff was on its way, and that he managed to send the piano....like I am supposed to fall over and be grateful. THEN he says "Well it is truly better off with you, and after all it is YOUR piano, and I GAVE it to YOU." All nice, rub it in etc. I said thanks very much and that I appreciated it, and if that was all, then goodbye.<p>He sounded like a hurt little boy.....<p>Maybe things have cooled off with OW. Well tough, cos they have cooled off in this camp too.<p>So I will have my piano in about three months, by my estimate....<p>I suppose it is a victory for me, and at least he can't hold it over my head any more.<p>Love and light,<p>Jacky


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