Can anyone recommend a Board like this that is for people choosing Divorce? My STBX knows I post here and I need anonymity. (sp?)

I'm not sure of any...but, there is the divorce/divorcing threads you could post too
you could also change your posting name..<p>But, I do have a question..what does it matter
if he knows your posting here if your getting a
divorce? <p>This is a support group for you..even if you choose the divorce route..or if they file and
it's not what you want but have to accept..<p>If he gets upset that your posting here well, thats his problem..not yours- that is something he has to work through within himself. You can't control how he reacts to your posting here for your own support. <p>Like I said though, you could change your posting name..but why? Your story will still be the same except it has a different ending that what you hoped for.

try this url maybe it will help you, I hope you stick around here, but what ever you decide, take care of yoursef.
http://www.infidelity.com/cgi-ubb/ultimatebb.cgi<p>[ November 23, 2001: Message edited by: jabber ]</p>

Key Bridge Site..<p>Very similar to this board. I would recommend posting under New Here and Closure and Forgiveness.<p>http://www.affairs-help.com/cgi-bin/Ultimate.cgi

Try Michele's Forums.

That would be Michele-Weiner Davis at http://www.divorcebusting.com<p>[ November 24, 2001: Message edited by: Chris (CA123) ]</p>

<blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr>Originally posted by notheard:
<strong>Can anyone recommend a Board like this that is for people choosing Divorce? My STBX knows I post here and I need anonymity. (sp?)</strong><hr></blockquote><p>
Notheard,<p>I understand why you don't want STBX coming here. I feel the same way. Once my children told STBX that I come here. I panicked and erased most of my threads. For me this was a safety issue. I know he doesn't like me talking aobut these things and I didn't want him blowing up at me. <p>Also, he is very critical and throws things in my face. I need to feel safe from his verbal assaults as well. I don't want to argue or fight with him anymore. It doesn't matter what he thinks so this is why I don't want him reading these things. <p>Someone once said to me, "If you have nothing to hide, then why does it matter what he reads." It matters for my sanity. Everyone needs a place they can go to and just feel safe and secure from critisms of their spouses or stbx's.<p>I have no answers to that place. Also, someone mentioned divorced busters, Michelle's site. I believe that too is very similar to MB.<p>Take care,<p>ANNA