All - Thank you for all your support and wisdom. You are all in my prayers.
So, onto the show...<p>I chose to go to my sisters. <p>WS called me from OM's house this am ( on her cell phone, pretending to be at home!)

While I was talking to her, OD was callin her house on the other line!

WS busted!<p>I just said you're not at home;and put OD on the phone.<p>Left WS message at home saying it while I enjoy any oppurtunity to connect, it wasn't healthy for me to go to IL's today. Wished her a great holiday, told her this hurts (per Steve).<p>Dropped off dishes at MIL's expressed love, prayed w her and kids, talked for a few, and left.<p>
Had a GREAT thanksgiving.<p> WS called me at home 13x; called cell phone 10x.
But she knew where I was....<p>Said I had single handedly ruined Thanksgiving, sucked as a dad (claimed no teeth brushing or hair combing...), had lost all respect for me, she'll be calling lawyer asap..<p>She had kids call 5-6x,left messages with her prompting each sentence.<p>I actually feel great. Like I'm regaining my power. Ws submitted a pretty bad "bid" for control.<p>It was so over the top it was funny. In a sad way.

Wish I could play y'all the messages.<p>Thanks again. I have real reason to give thanks.<p>Right now I feel free.<p>Dan<p>Muzzo- I'm thinking before I "talk". You'll be suffering my opinion shortly!

FM,<p>Glad you had a nice time. Sad as it could have been, you were still able to spend some time with family and enjoy it. You are in control and moving forward. Now your W has the challenge of deciding to be with her family and a partial man (OM). Hm...... <p>Take Care,
L.