been sitting here wrapping gifts for my sons and was wondering what my stbx will get OW, stbx never got me anything after the 1st year we were married, its been 17 yrs now, he has missed my birthdays, xmas, or any other holiday, I was the one to buy gifts for his sister, her children, and his parents without him even asking me to do it. I always got him something from me and a special gift from our son, even bought the gift for our son to give him every fathers day, and yes he didnt even give our son something for me on mothers day. OWH told me that his W is used to spending money so I was wondering will she get the diamond ring that I never got, H told me I had to wait 20yrs like his mom did, I doubt that he treats her like he did me. This was my 3rd marriage and I was willing to go thur anything to make it work and not have my 2nd son go thur a life with just a part-time dad.