Hello all,<p>Haven't posted in a while but felt like getting back in the swing of things. <p>First off, most of my posts have been in the GQ section. I am on my way thru divorce right now. <p>Knew that WS was cheating on me with a guy off the net but finally got a PI and busted her.
Been through hell and back since then but getting a lot of support from family and friends, including her father.<p>These are some of the things that are bothering me through:<p>First, We have very little contact but we have three children so I have to talk to her sometimes. The only time she calls me is when she needs something. I usually just jump up and come to her aid but that is getting old quick. I feel like she is using me and taking advantage of my good heart. I am tired of her taking advantage of me but she usually hangs the children over my head. Does anyone else have this problem?<p>Second, she ask me for a thousand dollars for Christmas and I gladly gave it to her thinking that she would use it for the children but she took off to Alabama to be with her lover and left the kids with her parents. I know that she had to use some of that money to get there and I am sure that she used some of it for his Christmas presents. That gets under my skin! I am no longer going to give her a dime more than the judge told me I had to give her. <p>Third, When is it OK to start seeing someone again? I have been talking to a woman that a friend intoduced me to and I really like her.
She has been through the same thing as me but she is a few steps ahead of me. She has told me that she loves me but I told her that I don't use that word lightly and I wouldn't say it unless I meant it.
My other friends say I should date around and be "free" for a while but do you throw away a huge diamond the first start digging in hopes of finding something bigger and better?
This really has me bothered!<p>What do ya'll think?<p>
RN
