Sunday is the day H comes to pick up our son, called lawyer & ask could I take our son to fl for xmas to be with my family, its been every xmas with H family for 18yrs now, & Im ready for a change, since we dont have holidays down on paper yet, told me to let H know ahead of time, I dont have contact number for him to call on phone, new home living part-time with MOW,new job, H mom wont give him messages from us(blames me for the D), so Im writing a nice note telling him our plans & plan to give it to H tomorrow, my mom is 75 years old only see her twice a year (after D wont have the money to go & will be trying to find a job after 12yrs),older son & family lives there also all my brothers & sister are there, going thur a bad mamogram with a lump that needs to come out as soon as they get all xrays together so Im not sure of my health later. Both of us need to get out of H hometown for a change, Ive talked to our son & he really wants to go, sunday is also our son's school play at our church, STBX is taking him to practice so I know Ill meet him there tomorrow night. Please pray STBX wont throw a fit & will understand why we need to go. STBX has plans to be with MOW & her kids, he wont be alone this xmas. STBX hasnt called our son since July only contact is when H picks him up on Sunday for 1 day, its sad but H & son really dont know each other that well after 12years. We wont be gone but a few days, my sister is giving us Gas money for xmas to help with the trip.
M-17yrs
D-pending
C-12,28,GD-7yrs old
MOW-M-10yrs
MOW-D-pending
MOW-3kids
