I have 4 people that are trying to 'set' me up with 4 LOOSERS! Anywhere from dope users to jobless, homeless!! What a bunch of nuts!!!<p>I obtained a restraining order against ex H. Last Sun. morning @ 12:30am, took 6 bxs. of ex's stuff and drove to his aunts apt.<p>She happened to get in same time I pulled up. She invited me in, we talked til 5am, told my ex-H is telling everyone I ran up all his credit cards and maxed them out, I'm 'flipping' out on drugs, the day I saw him after D-day was on a Sat for about 4 hrs. to discuss Div. He's telling everyone I only want him for sex. <p>This person she described to me is NOT THE PERSON I lived w/for 5 yrs. What in the world is going on????<p>I've cut off ALL contact w/his family and friends. (never met any of his friends anyhow!) <p>He has other 'interests' if you know what I mean, don't know for sure if any of them are 'steady' yet. <p>Even with restraining order, I still see him in my neighborhood almost 3-5 times a week - just parked .... not doing anything - just parked. Called police - they said he's 'not violating' anything as he's far enough away. <p>WHAT DOES HE WANT?? When he had me, he didn't want me. When I'm not with him anymore, does he???? It's very un-nerving to see him. <p>The nite I was over his aunts, I drove home at 5:30am - low and behold - there he was down the street just sitting there!!!!<p>An elderly friend of mine said thats from a 'guilty' concience - he's cheated and he wants to confirm to himself that I have someone also so it eases his guilt. What do you think???<p>Thanks alot for your input!!! I'M NEVER GETTING MARRIED AGAIN!!!!!!

I totally agre w/ the last para.. <p>As I was reading your post that all I could think about.. Its the fog.. <p>Oh,, and on a side note... Never say Never.. [img]images/icons/tongue.gif" border="0[/img] <p>Tex.