<BR>Hello Tash,<BR>Haven't heard from you in a while. Hopefully, your conflicts are resolved. Would love to hear how it's going.

begrjo,Thank you for thinking of me!! That means more to me then you could imagine! Things are bad. I'm scared, confused, & really sad. I have never felt so desperate and alone. On the lighter side I have lost 20 pounds. We tried couseling (once) He thinks it makes things worse, because he is trying to forget how unhappy he is and would rather not talk about it.He hasn't moved out yet but, has found a place. Still says he loves me... he's just not happy. Any happy endings out there, for a spouse who was unhappy. or any suggestions on what I can do? <P>------------------<BR>Tash

Hi Tash,<BR>Glad to hear from you. And I'm sorry things have gotten to this point for you. It's been nearly a week since your post. Are things the same? You asked the question, "Any happy endings out there. . . " I happened to remember an old boyfriend of mine from about 15 years ago. I was dating him while he was separated. He still loved his wife very much and wanted his family to be together. His wife was the one who wanted the separation. I saw him about a year after we stopped dating. He was, at this time, quite happy with his life. He and his wife had gotten back together. They moved out to the country and, as far as I know, are living happily ever after. Of course, I don't know what the events were that led up to this. All I know is that he was in counseling. So, there's one happy ending. And I'm sure there are many, many more. <P>As far as suggestions, I'm afraid I'm not proficient at this. However, Dr. Harley, I'm sure you know, has quite a website here. Also, group therapy sessions might be helpful in as you'll know you're not alone in how you feel. <P>May God bless you. Stay in touch.