here are 10 tips I found on a website that might help
Remember, if you have children, you will be in touch with each other until one of you dies.

The way a divorce is handled impacts your life for a long time. It sets the stage for many years.

If you act with thought, rather than react emotionally, you will save yourself grief.

Grieving is natural. There's been a death--the death of a relationship. Give yourself time to grieve.

Death of the "dream of the ideal" is the last thing to go.

Wait to date. When we're vulnerable, judgment is impaired.

When you date, don't bring the person home to the children right away. Wait until that person has been talked about for awhile and you're relatively sure that the person will be important.

Don't speak negatively about your (ex)spouse to the children whenever possible.

Don't let the lawyers control the divorce process. It's your divorce and you are in charge.

Eat when you're hungry, drink when you're thirsty, rest when you're tired and exercise to blow off steam or lift your spirits.

Once more,you've shot into the centre (oh my english!)
I need that but once again with a manual
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Those are some great points jabber, too bad I didn't read them before I had to learn the hard way! [img]images/icons/smile.gif" border="0[/img] <p>I can say after going thru much of it myself, it is quite true. What site is that from?