<BR>my husband walked ou on me and our baby two daysago because my sister told him to and i feel like i am going to die i can't sleep i cant eat and my bab won't stop crying i think she know he is gone<P>------------------<BR>GOD HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!<P>

First of all, I’m so sorry for the pain you are in right now. I don’t understand why your sister has so much influence on your husband. Why did she tell him to leave you? What were the problems you were having before he left? Do you suspect there is another person involved? Most people don’t just walk out for no apparent reason. Did your husband say anything about needing time to think, or did he just leave without any explanation? I’m sorry there are more questions than answers, but it helps to know a little more background in order to fully understand. As for your current state, is there anyone you can turn to for support? Your parents, any close friends, your church? Please seek support now. You are in no frame of mind to go at it alone. Also, you baby is most likely crying because she senses your state of being. For that reason, too, you need to seek support. I’m praying for you.

I just read your post in “Prayer Requests” and now know more of your story. What I don’t understand is why your husband would take your sister’s word as truth without first talking to you. Your husband’s actions show that he does not consider your feelings or input as valuable, and that is a major red flag!!! Please understand that for him to value your sister’s input over yours is wrong. Even if you have been neglecting his needs in the marriage, it is his responsibility to communicate this to YOU – not your sister. Have you talked to your sister at all to ask her what her motivation was for saying the things she has been saying? You said in your prayer post that you suspected your husband and your sister were involved. I know that thought must be almost incomprehensible and must cause you terrible pain. What indications have you had to help you reach this conclusion (other than the things your sister has been saying to your husband)? Finally, I’ll repeat again that you should seek some type of support during this time. The most frustrating truth of all is that we cannot control another’s actions – which means that you cannot make your husband call you or come back to you. Willing him to do so will only cause you more grief. He will only do so when he is ready. Until then, you HAVE to take care of yourself, for both your sake and your baby’s. You’re much stronger than you give yourself credit for.

my husband and i talked and he cannot explain why he listened to my sister over me but from the indications i am getting it is because he wan to be accepted and look cool to her and her man she tells him that he is supposed to beat me if i do not act right and he is just so gullable i believed they were involved because they are always wrestlig and playing physically with one another<P>------------------<BR>GOD HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!!<P>