i lost it yesterday. me and h are getting a divorce and the only hold up right now is money. he is suppose to pay for half and so far he has only given half of what he is entitled to pay. <p>he is saying his money is tight and doesn't know when he will be able to give me the other half. and he is paying daughters tuition and college fund total is $260.20 plus his other bills and half of ow house bills as he finally started paying up for staying their something he did not do for the first 8 months he was there. <p>now all he says is how his money is "so tight" and when daughter's tuition and college fund are due he only sends me $56 b/c he knows that court is going to make him pay $316 so when daughters other stuff is due he subtracts that from child support amt. <p>i told him he needs to find the money so we can proceed with the divorce. he has already changed his mailing address to ow home and he still owes $1400 in child support as he stopped paying in sept and didn't start again till the end of dec. so he needs to send all the back pymts. <p>i also told him i will give him half of daughters tuition and half of the college fund since he can't pay $40.40 each month for the fund. but he needs to give me the $316 for c.support. he just does as he pleases and that is why i am in a rush to get divorce going so i can get the back pay plus get the full amt regardless of tuition and the c. fund <p>i can not pay all the money for the divorce and i don't feel i should have to. he was the cheater throughout the marriage he wanted out he moved in with ow and is still married. he has no morals/values. he is really giving our daughter some example. <p>he don't even see daughter calls when he feels like it and only attempts to see her if he is "in the neighborhood" other than that he doesn't come around. oh he came baring gifts for her bday and xmas. <p>he spent tons of money for xmas on presents for daughter,his mom, and ow but can't give me $250.<p>i am at a dead end. i can not pay his half and mine for the divorce. i just want everything i am entitled to and thats it. he wants this over but is really dragging it out. <p>says he is "sorry" for all the pain he has caused but its time for me to move on. i don't want him back but its just so much easier for him to move on b/c he has ow stroking his ego and has her believing he is a "good guy" and things btwn him and i just didn't work and honestly it just didn't work b/c he was a liar and a cheat. and he told me no need to be angry what's done is done and i need to just move on. <p>i told him its not that easy and that i am dealing with this by myself while he has her to take his mind off of it he has no remorse and is just happy that he has a new "loving relationship"
ow is his everything. i just want him to get what he deserves <p>guess i am bitter and very hurt by the pain and rejection he has caused but how could it just be no sweat off his back while i am dealing with so much <p>work,raising a child and trying to move on oh i forgot mananging an apartment all on my own. i know in time it will make me strong but right now i am so hurt not wanting him just hurt and dealing with it being over. <p>he is just skipping through the park and having a grand time with himself and her<p>its sooooooooooooo hard<p>pls post.
how do you move in with someone while you still need to deal with divorce he hasn't talked to our child about anything and he is such a kjdoift@@##.<p>pls post i need support