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I'm going crazy with all my thoughts..I havent heard from the stbx H for almost 2 months..I know he has forgotten about the baby and i..It's like we were never a part of his life..He makes me so mad!!..I know he doesn't even think about us or what happend he has moved on and is with someone else and is in another state..So nothing can make him remember...Why can't i be that way i'm drained i want to stop caring and thinking about all this..I've tried to throw everything away but the baby is a constant reminder..I hurt so much and i'm so alone..At times i don't understand why god would want me to be in so much pain maybe i deserve what is happening to me..I just want to be loved..
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be partient and you know you are loved by many and that baby loves and needs you more than anything, I think your ws is thinking of you and the baby, he probably feels so much quilt and shame that he can't bring himself to make contact. A person doesn't forget someone they loved and had a child with, Stay focused on you and the baby and making the best life for you and the baby, you will so realize you are better off with out him. why would you want a man that would do this to you. being angry is good it is a sign you are healing, take care of yourself
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I know that this is a very hard time for you. But please remember that God does love you and that baby loves you and needs you at this time. I am always being reminded that when divorcing or separating it is a greaving process, just as if there was a death in the family. this is very true. You are going thru the steps you need to recover. Have you thought about looking for a support group? That would put you in touch with others in the same situation. It would help you get out and find friends and someone to talk to.
I wish you the best and you are in my prayers.
Anne2000
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