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The judge was kinda clueless. Seems he didn't think he had "jurisdiction" over the "real property" - the house. He thinks it needs to be done separately than the divorce.<p>The lawyer brought up the fact that she has done this exactly the same way with all the other judges/districts and even judges in this district.<p>Anyhoo, she (the lawyer) needs to research if this is permissible (getting everything done at once) & file a brief. If the court doesn't agree, we need to publish again for the division of real property.<p>But, we are divorced and I have sole custody with visitation to be granted when both parties agree.
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Sorry to hear it Chris, just because it's so final somehow and I really thought she'd come home.<p>Are you okay?
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If ever a BS gave his WS all the time in the world, you are the one.<p>I regret that it came to this and I know you do to. <p>(((((((((((((((((((Chris))))))))))))))))
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{{{Chris}}}...<p>I've been there my good friend.<p>Once the financials are done... ...it's a huge sigh of relief.<p>You already know what to do... ...as both the dad... and the mom of the house! I know (like me) you have acclamated to your situation.<p>I have seen (while I was in my lurking stage) you were still active on the boards... ...it offers a good "healing" process!<p>You're a very blessed man... ...and will always be.... to have the girls!<p>Give them a hug for me...<p>Let them know there are dads and moms... ...that understand that "responsibility" is greatest form of love!<p>Your friend...<p>Jim/NSR
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Chris,<p>I am very sorry to hear it is done. Does Donna know she is divorced or will she find out sometime in the by and by?<p>I hope that besides the finality of this, that it also brings you some release and yes even happiness to go out into the future with this behind you.<p>How are the girls doing? Did this bother them? I hope not too much.<p>God Bless,<p>JL
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Chris--<p>Not sure whether to offer condolences or congratulations. Think I'll send both...I am sorry your W became so lost and never found her way out. It is truly sad. Congrats to you though on your own journey, and the prospect of brighter days ahead!<p>Kathi
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I'm sorry that this judge did not allow complete closure to this chapter.<p>You fought the good fight.<p>In this case, I think its true, it doesn't matter if you won or lost, it's how you played the game.<p>I know it wasn't a game, but I don't think you lost. <p>I wish you all the best!
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The day my divorce was final I felt all kinds of different emotions. I was relieved to end that chapter of my life after all the hell I was put through, but I was sad that it marked the end of my marriage that I fought so hard for. When you give all you have for something and still get rejected, it is pretty hard to take. But I feel my life can only get better from here. I hope you are feeling some peace about it being somewhat finalized, and can see hope for your future.<p>Krista <p>PS What is it about Colorado judges, anyway? Mine seemed clueless as well.
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Chris,<p>Just wanted to let you know that I saw your post. You well hopefully be able to get the legal separation of property finalized soon. I know it is only a legal step, but there is also something about having the divorce "final" that does bring it's own kind of relief. <p>Wishing you a most wonderful 2002!<p>Take care of those girls, Desiree
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Chris, I just said a little prayer for you. Good things will happen for you.
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To somebody who was a source of inspiration during a difficult time: (((Chris))) May God bless you and your girls.
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